Bored of the same old truth-or-dare games? It’s time to crank up the heat with Hot Seat game that takes juicy secrets, awkward confessions, and straight-up hilarious moments to the next level.
Whether you’re playing with close friends, a partner, or a group of absolute chaos-lovers, this game guarantees no one makes it out unscathed. Get ready to spill the tea, dodge the most unhinged questions, and maybe learn a little too much about each other.
Play Spicy Hot Seat
Looking for the ultimate collection of spicy, unfiltered questions? Our Dirty Hot Seat question bank has everything from innocent icebreakers to next-level chaos. Perfect for drinking games, game nights, or just exposing your friends in the best way possible.
How to Play Spicy Hot Seat
Simple rules, maximum chaos. Here’s how it works:
Pick a player to sit in the Hot Seat. One brave soul volunteers (or gets volunteered) to answer whatever comes their way.
Choose a question. The group picks a question from a list of Hot Seat questions—spicy, dirty, freaky, or flirty—and the player has no choice but to answer.
Answer honestly… or face the consequences. The player can either spill the truth or take a punishment, like a dare, a sip of their drink, or whatever savage penalty your group decides.
Keep going until everyone’s been roasted. Once the round ends, the next person takes the Hot Seat. Rinse and repeat for maximum chaos.
Example round: Question: “What’s the wildest place you’ve ever hooked up?”
- Player answers honestly (and probably regrets it).
- Or they refuse and take a dare.
- Either way, the group wins.
Dirty Hot Seat Questions
No filter, no regrets! These Dirty Hot Seat questions will push your limits and expose your friends’ most scandalous secrets.
1. What’s my go-to move in the bedroom?
A true signature performance.
2. What’s the wildest place I’ve done it?
Public risk level: high.
3. What’s my biggest turn-on?
Let’s see who’s been paying attention.
4. Have I ever faked it?
Oscar-worthy performance or the real deal?
5. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to me in bed?
Hope it wasn’t too scarring.
6. If I had to choose, would I rather give or receive?
Decisions, decisions…
7. What’s my go-to excuse to get out of sex?
Too tired, “headache,” or something way worse?
8. What’s the most unexpected thing that’s turned me on?
Not everything makes sense.
9. Have I ever had a one-night stand?
One and done, or never at all?
10. What’s something I’ve always wanted to try in bed but haven’t?
Time to spill those secret fantasies.
11. Have I ever sent a risky text to the wrong person?
Double-check before you hit send.
12. If I had to pick, what’s my best physical feature?
Humble brag moment incoming.
13. What’s the most embarrassing thing I’ve said during sex?
Verbal chaos guaranteed.
14. Have I ever been caught in the act?
Busted or blessed with good timing?
15. What’s my biggest ick in the bedroom?
Instant mood killer.
16. If I could have a free pass for one night with a celeb, who would it be?
No shame in this hall pass.
17. What’s the hottest dream I’ve ever had?
Hope it wasn’t about someone in this room.
18. Have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner?
Yikes or totally innocent?
19. Have I ever been walked in on?
Knocking is a thing, people.
20. What’s the most unexpected place I’ve felt a spark with someone?
Romance is weird like that.
21. What’s the longest I’ve gone without… you know?
A true test of willpower.
22. What’s my worst date experience?
Tell us everything. No, seriously.
23. Have I ever flirted my way out of trouble?
Charm can be a dangerous weapon.
24. Would I rather be dominant or submissive?
Let’s see who’s surprised.
25. What’s a secret kink I’d never admit to my family?
They don’t need to know everything.
26. Have I ever sent a scandalous selfie?
The risk-reward ratio is real.
27. What’s my guilty pleasure when it comes to attraction?
Oddly specific crush incoming.
28. What’s the most awkward thing that’s happened to me mid-hookup?
Do share, we’re invested.
29. Have I ever used a pickup line that actually worked?
Teach us your ways.
30. Have I ever hooked up with someone I regretted?
We all have that story.
31. What’s my weirdest romantic habit?
Better or worse than baby talk?
32. Have I ever slid into a celeb’s DMs?
Shooting your shot is free.
33. What’s my go-to move when I want attention?
Subtlety? Never heard of her.
34. What’s something I think about way too much?
Spill the spicy overthinking.
35. Have I ever had a thing with someone in this room?
Tension check, anyone?
36. If I had to describe my love life in one word, what would it be?
Thriving, tragic, or straight-up confusing?
37. Have I ever lied about my body count?
Some numbers are mysteriously flexible.
38. What’s my weirdest crush ever?
The weirder, the better.
39. What’s the most awkward morning-after story I have?
Please say it includes sneaking out.
40. Have I ever sent a drunk text I regretted?
Regret level: extreme.
41. What’s the hottest thing someone has ever said to me?
Or was it just cringey?
42. What’s the weirdest thing I’ve found attractive?
Brains? A specific voice? An elbow?
43. Have I ever made a move on a friend?
That could’ve ended badly.
44. What’s something I’ve done just to impress someone I liked?
Simping at its finest.
45. If I could swap love lives with anyone, who would it be?
Manifesting that relationship.
46. Have I ever been someone’s sneaky link?
Shady or just strategic?
47. If my search history was exposed, what’s the most embarrassing thing people would find?
Time to delete everything.
48. What’s something I wish I was better at in relationships?
Vulnerability moment.
49. Have I ever pretended to like something just to get someone’s attention?
A true dedication to the act.
50. Have I ever had a crush on a teacher or boss?
Power dynamics, am I right?
51. If I had to kiss one person in this room, who would it be?
Awkward or exciting? You decide.
52. What’s something I think is overrated when it comes to romance?
Love languages? Grand gestures? Tell us.
53. Have I ever been in love with two people at the same time?
Complicated much?
54. What’s the most unexpected thing that’s made me blush?
Spill the awkward moment.
55. Have I ever lied about my weekend plans to avoid someone?
Ghosting, but politely.
56. What’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever done in the name of love (or lust)?
Cringe level: maximum.
57. Have I ever been someone’s rebound?
Ouch or flattering?
58. If I had to be in a reality dating show, which one would I pick?
Love Island or full chaos on Too Hot to Handle?
59. Have I ever been dumped in a hilarious way?
We need details.
60. What’s something I’d never admit on a first date?
But you’re admitting it now.
Spicy Hot Seat Questions
Get ready to spill the tea! These spicy hot seat questions will take your game to the next level, pushing boundaries and exposing just the right amount of chaos.
Brace yourself—things are about to heat up!
1. What’s the most unexpected thing that’s turned me on?
No judgment (okay, maybe a little).
2. If I had to choose, would I rather dominate or submit?
Pick wisely.
3. Have I ever kissed someone I definitely shouldn’t have?
The messiest stories are the best ones.
4. What’s my biggest guilty pleasure when it comes to attraction?
Oddly specific answers only.
5. What’s my go-to move when I’m trying to flirt?
Smooth operator or cringe machine?
6. If I had to describe my love life as a movie, what would it be?
Rom-com, horror, or just straight-up tragic?
7. Have I ever caught feelings for someone I was just supposed to hook up with?
Oops or totally worth it?
8. What’s my biggest turn-off?
Immediate ick unlocked.
9. What’s the weirdest dream I’ve had about someone in this room?
Things are about to get awkward.
10. Have I ever had a sneaky link?
And did it stay sneaky?
11. What’s the boldest thing I’ve ever done to get someone’s attention?
A true act of dedication.
12. Have I ever been involved in a love triangle?
Messy or just misunderstood?
13. What’s my worst first-date experience?
Tell us everything.
14. Would I ever be down for a blindfolded surprise?
Exciting or terrifying?
15. What’s something spicy I’d never admit to my family?
Some things just aren’t meant for the dinner table.
16. If I had to describe my bedroom energy in one word, what would it be?
Be honest now.
17. Have I ever had a crush on a fictional character?
Some animated characters just hit different.
18. What’s my most embarrassing text sent to the wrong person?
There’s no recovering from this one.
19. If I could be a fly on the wall for one conversation, what would it be?
Spill the nosy fantasy.
20. Have I ever been the other person without knowing it?
Yikes.
21. What’s the most unhinged thing I’ve done when I liked someone?
Let’s hear the cringe.
22. Have I ever been caught checking someone out?
Smooth or painfully obvious?
23. If I had to write a warning label for my dating life, what would it say?
Proceed with caution.
24. What’s the most awkward compliment I’ve ever received?
Flattering or just… weird?
25. What’s the weirdest thing I find attractive?
Niche answers only.
26. Have I ever had a “situationship” that lasted way too long?
No labels, only confusion.
27. If I had to reveal one spicy DM I’ve sent, what would it be?
Screenshots or it didn’t happen.
28. What’s my ultimate fantasy vacation with a partner?
Keep it classy (or don’t).
29. Have I ever been ghosted in the worst way?
Haunting stories welcome.
30. If I had to create a dating app bio that was too honest, what would it say?
Brace for red flags.
31. What’s a compliment I’ve received that actually made me blush?
Rare but appreciated.
32. Have I ever dated someone just because they were hot?
Substance? Who needs it?
33. What’s something I wish people knew about me in bed?
Anonymously submit your answers.
34. Have I ever played a game of strip poker (or something similar)?
And did I win or lose?
35. What’s the spiciest text I’ve ever received?
No screenshots necessary—just the story.
36. Have I ever had a moment where I thought I was being flirted with but wasn’t?
Humbling.
37. If I could swap love lives with any celebrity, who would it be?
Manifesting that lifestyle.
38. Have I ever been dared to do something spicy in public?
And did I actually go through with it?
39. What’s my ultimate ‘type’?
Be brutally honest.
40. Have I ever had a crush on someone completely out of my usual preferences?
Exceptions exist.
41. What’s the most unexpected thing I’ve found attractive about someone?
Bonus points for weirdness.
42. Have I ever lied about my weekend plans to avoid a date?
Ghosting, but with extra effort.
43. What’s the most dramatic way I’ve ever ended a situationship?
Leave nothing out.
44. Have I ever been told I was someone’s “biggest mistake”?
Ouch or flattering?
45. What’s something flirty I’ve said that worked way too well?
Teach us your ways.
46. Have I ever walked in on something I really shouldn’t have?
Burn that memory.
47. What’s the boldest thing I’ve ever done in public?
Hopefully, no witnesses.
48. Have I ever had a “what are we?” conversation go terribly wrong?
Defining the undefined.
49. What’s the most oddly specific thing I find attractive in someone?
The niche appeal is real.
50. Have I ever had an unexpected fling that turned into something more?
Or was it just fun while it lasted?
51. If I had to choose, would I rather get caught sending a risky text or receiving one?
Pick your embarrassment.
52. What’s the best “morning after” excuse I’ve ever used?
Smooth or just straight-up messy?
53. Have I ever dated someone just for the drama?
Entertainment value: 10/10.
54. What’s the strangest question I’ve ever been asked on a date?
Bonus points if it made you rethink the whole thing.
55. Have I ever flirted with someone purely out of boredom?
No shame in the game.
56. What’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever done to impress someone?
Simping at its peak.
57. Have I ever been called out for being a flirt?
And was it justified?
58. What’s the worst pickup line that actually worked on me?
Sometimes, the cringe is endearing.
59. Have I ever played hard to get just to see if it worked?
Game recognized game.
60. What’s something I’d never want my ex to reveal about me?
Pray they stay silent.
Juicy Hot Seat Questions
Ready to stir up some drama? These juicy hot seat questions will have everyone second-guessing their answers, revealing secrets, and maybe even sparking a little chaos.
No holding back—things are about to get interesting.
1. What’s the most reckless thing I’ve done for love?
Would I do it again?
2. Have I ever kissed two people in one night?
No shame, just vibes.
3. What’s the worst reason I’ve ghosted someone?
Some excuses are just too bad to admit.
4. Have I ever accidentally sent a risky text to the wrong person?
Tell us how bad it was.
5. If I had to rate my flirting skills, what would I give myself?
Be brutally honest.
6. What’s the most awkward thing I’ve said mid-flirt?
Cringe flashbacks incoming.
7. Have I ever been caught lying on a dating app?
A little embellishment never hurt… right?
8. What’s the pettiest reason I’ve rejected someone?
Please tell me it wasn’t over their shoes.
9. Have I ever been a rebound?
Accidental or totally intentional?
10. What’s the most dramatic way I’ve ever been dumped?
Let’s hear the tragic details.
11. Have I ever slid into someone’s DMs and immediately regretted it?
Screenshot-worthy?
12. What’s a lie I’ve told to get out of a bad date?
Some fibs are for survival.
13. Have I ever been the heartbreaker?
Oops, my bad.
14. What’s the most unhinged thing I’ve done out of jealousy?
Regret or no regrets?
15. What’s the most unexpected place I’ve met someone I was into?
Love can find you anywhere.
16. If I had to delete all but one app from my phone, which one would I keep?
Survival of the fittest.
17. Have I ever stalked someone’s ex on social media?
Curiosity killed the cat…
18. What’s the most savage message I’ve ever received?
Tears or laughter—no in-between.
19. What’s my biggest “ick” in a partner?
Non-negotiable dealbreaker.
20. Have I ever been in love with someone who didn’t love me back?
Ouch, let’s unpack that.
21. What’s the most embarrassing thing I’ve done to impress a crush?
Regret level: 10/10.
22. Have I ever broken up with someone over text?
Modern romance at its finest.
23. What’s the most chaotic date I’ve ever been on?
Did it end in disaster?
24. If my love life had a theme song, what would it be?
Bonus points if it’s tragic.
25. Have I ever been friend-zoned?
Or worse—family-zoned?
26. Have I ever faked feelings to keep the peace?
Toxic or just strategic?
27. What’s my worst jealousy moment?
Let’s hear the pettiness.
28. Have I ever had feelings for someone I shouldn’t have?
Forbidden fruit situation.
29. What’s the biggest red flag I’ve ignored?
And did it end in disaster?
30. Have I ever made a move on a friend’s ex?
Tell us the real story.
31. What’s my record for the shortest situationship?
World record speed.
32. Have I ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person?
That second of panic.
33. What’s my go-to toxic trait in relationships?
At least you’re self-aware.
34. Have I ever faked a romantic connection?
Did it work out?
35. What’s the most unexpected reason I’ve ended a fling?
Niche reasons only.
36. If I had to describe my last breakup in three words, what would they be?
Let’s hear the poetry.
37. Have I ever led someone on without meaning to?
Oops or totally aware?
38. What’s my biggest regret in dating?
Or is it all just life experience?
39. Have I ever been stood up?
And did I take revenge?
40. What’s my worst ‘drunk text’ moment?
Cringe level: extreme.
41. Have I ever flirted my way out of trouble?
Smooth or just desperate?
42. If I had to date one person from this room, who would it be?
Think carefully before answering.
43. What’s my go-to excuse for avoiding commitment?
Classic avoidance strategy.
44. Have I ever been in a fake relationship?
And why, exactly?
45. What’s the pettiest way I’ve gotten revenge on an ex?
Toxic behavior, but entertaining.
46. Have I ever lied about my relationship status?
For good reason or just messy?
47. If I could relive one relationship for 24 hours, which one would it be?
Make it count.
48. Have I ever started talking to someone just because I was bored?
No shame in the game.
49. What’s the most reckless thing I’ve done post-breakup?
Regret or best decision ever?
50. Have I ever gotten back with an ex?
And was it worse the second time?
51. If I had to describe my dating history as a reality TV show, what would it be?
Chaotic, tragic, or iconic?
52. Have I ever played two people at once?
And did I get caught?
53. What’s the biggest lie I’ve told in a relationship?
Spill the tea.
54. Have I ever sent a risky message and instantly regretted it?
Delete, delete, delete.
55. What’s the boldest move I’ve ever made on someone?
Success rate: TBD.
56. Have I ever pretended to like something just to impress a date?
Fake fan moment.
57. What’s the worst thing I’ve done post-breakup?
We all have that story.
58. Have I ever had a major glow-up just to flex on an ex?
Revenge body, activated.
59. What’s the wildest thing I’ve said mid-argument?
Instant regret?
60. If my ex had to describe me in three words, what would they say?
Let’s hope it’s not too bad.
